Lately I've been thinking of my comfort zone and I, as I always try not to push through it. Sometimes I like to let fear stop me out of it and sometimes I let laziness keep me, but either way I decided to stop and instead I have to start the game in a territory that only can lead to growth.

I am writing about this all the time, take steps to grow. But knowing what to do and are actually two different things. For example, I can say whatever he wants, I should come and build relationships in the field, but not really, all that knowledge just thoughts floating in the air. It does not really build the necessary relationships.

So I decided that if I was faced with one of these feelings that I had to act with appropriate measures.

Fear

When I have fear of doing something to feel, then that means there is a lesson to learn. I'm not talking about "I'll die if I do that!" A little scary, but I'm happy with the fear of rejection, failure, or upset to speak in any way.

For example, today I wrote an article for a popular web site and may provide for inclusion in their blogs. Normally I would avoid it for fear of rejection, but if I get permission, I could be a lot of new visitors to my site, because the contribution they receive.

Complaint

If they start to complain after that would be a sign that something is wrong and needs fixing. I could complain, what I want, but if I'm really in action on the issue even more appealing to me then I am still complain the next day, and maybe years down the road.

Today, my complaint is about people parking in our parking lot in front of our home. Instead of complaining, I normally do, I have action and parked our car in front of our house when it was released. Now I'm not angry or worry!

Negativity

I no longer allowed to live on the negative side of things. If I start to feel something negative, then I'm obviously not doing something right. For example, when I go for something that makes me feel that I am the subject of negative (or, in my opinion) a little more about the positive changes.

A good example is today in the library. I witnessed some inconsiderate people talking loudly for an hour about his new venture in business. I am very angry to read because they do not study the reflection on the people in the library, I think, and it works.

Can usually stay in the class of negative thoughts for a long time, but once it turned out that the negative opinions (to understand why they do) on the situation in a more positive I feel better about the whole situation.

That's my plan! I'm not going to stop living in fear or in a negative ground, but I my life as I want to be and live in a world of happiness - by action.

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